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About untamed nights

Untamed nights was set up by a group of "Fab" friends who have run a successful swingers chat group for many years and held regular social events locally in Bournemouth. We felt the time was right to branch out and to offer private parties for swingers and so untamed nights was born. 

Our Ethos has always been to provide a fun and safe community where people can just be themselves and enjoy. No judgements, no prejudices, no exclusions.

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The venue is purpose built with 7 recently refurbished play rooms, including a sex swing room, a cinema room, an orgy room, a spanking room and 3 standard rooms. Two of the standard rooms have lockable doors for private play and the spanking room is furnished with a St Andrew's cross and spanking bench. All areas are complimented with coloured led lighting.

A 4 person jacuzzi, shower room, lockers, a small dance floor with leather sofas and a fully licensed bar are available to complete a fantastic evening. 

We are situated central to Bournemouth within a short taxi ride of the Premier Inn Westbourne, the Hilton hotel and many other boutique hotels. There is ample parking to the rear of the club using a Pay and display car park, with a short 30 second walk through Mannington Place which brings you to the front door. We open at 8 PM which means you have plenty of time to enjoy the busy bars and restaurants surrounding the club before hand to meet and socialise with other swingers. 

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Price List

for party nights

£40 prebook and members price


Our parties are aimed predominantly at couples. Taking you right back to the original roots of partner swapping. We do welcome singles as well to accommodate other dynamics and mixes.

£40 prebook and members price

Single males

Single males are welcome to our parties but numbers will be limited at Uninhibited member events to keep the ratio of singles to couples balanced. Our Unrestricted parties have no limitations on ratios and will be an open invite for all respectable gents to attend.

£10 prebook and members price

Single females and Transexual females

The lesser spotted Unicorn / Single lady and TS females are always welcome at untamed nights.

£20 prebook and members price

Transexual males

Untamed nights is an inclusive club and safe space for all, so if you identify as a Transexual male, you are very welcome to attend. 

£20 prebook and members price


You do you at untamed nights. If you are more comfortable cross dressing or dressing in a variety of outfits, we are a safe space to express yourself.

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    Multiple Dates
    Sat, 20 Apr
    20 Apr 2024, 20:00 – 21 Apr 2024, 02:00
    Bournemouth, 140 Commercial Rd, Bournemouth BH2 5LU, UK
    20 Apr 2024, 20:00 – 21 Apr 2024, 02:00
    Bournemouth, 140 Commercial Rd, Bournemouth BH2 5LU, UK
    At this event we are giving you the opportunity to win a holiday to Spicy Island between 2nd-6th July courtesy of Spicy Match UK. To enter, simply sign up to Spicy Match using our UntamedVIP discount code (if you are not already signed up) and rsvp on our April or May events.
    Multiple Dates
    Sat, 04 May
    04 May 2024, 20:00 – 05 May 2024, 02:00
    Bournemouth, 140 Commercial Rd, Bournemouth BH2 5LU, UK
    04 May 2024, 20:00 – 05 May 2024, 02:00
    Bournemouth, 140 Commercial Rd, Bournemouth BH2 5LU, UK
    May the 4th be with you. Our sci fi themed event. Fancy dress encouraged but not compulsory Members Only - New members always welcome. See our membership section for details on becoming an Untamed Nights member.
  • UNTAMED NIGHTS on tour @ Swingathon 2024
    UNTAMED NIGHTS on tour @ Swingathon 2024
    Thu, 18 Jul
    18 Jul 2024, 12:00 – 21 Jul 2024, 00:00
    Lincolnshire, Lincolnshire, UK
    18 Jul 2024, 12:00 – 21 Jul 2024, 00:00
    Lincolnshire, Lincolnshire, UK
    As you may already know, we will be at Swingathon 2024. We are please to be hosts and can't wait to see you. This event registration is for a prize draw for a free Untamed nights branded watch and is free to enter for all Swingathon attendees.
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Untamed nights strives to create a welcoming community where singles and couples can unite to fulfil their untamed desires. Single gents play a huge roll in this, so if you are a single gent and new to the scene, we have prepared some fantastic tips for you and everyone else, which we expect to be the minimum standards at our events.

Most of our ladies attend with a party bag and there is nothing better than seeing the gentlemen mirror this. Accessories in this bag will generally include mouth mints, condoms, lube and wet wipes and a small can of deodorant for after the jacuzzi. A spare hairband to offer the ladies is also a great icebreaker.

Always dress to impress. Trainers, tracksuits, dirty clothes and baseball caps are a no for us. Shower and groom before attending and put a little thought into your outfit. You can never be overdressed so if in doubt, go all out to impress. As well as pre party preparation, there are showers on site to freshen between play or after the jacuzzi.

Once in the club, there are no hardened rules on dress code. There are lockers available for your clothes, but if you wish to put on lingerie, enjoy being naked or wear fetish outfits, please feel free to indulge.

Always ask before touching. Uninvited contact or non consensual touching is one of the largest complaints and having been on the receiving end of this, we do not tolerate any such activities. A simple "Can we play" is always recommended. 

Also, if you are in a group scenario, regularly check in and ask if your play partner is ok. There is nothing wrong with expressing to other people around you wishing to join you that you "are only playing together today". 

Some of our play rooms have locks. The general etiquette and rules surrounding this: is that if a door is left open and people are playing in the room, this is an invite to watch and/or ask to join in. If the door is shut, do NOT knock and do NOT enter.  

No means no and if someone says they do not wish to play, they do not need any reason or explanation why. We expect anybody in our club to respect these requests with a smile. We must not forget that this is not a criticism in any way, you just simply do not fit the dynamics of what the other person wants or needs for that evening.

Finally, this is a community. We welcome everyone's feedback and we expect everyone to look after each other. No judgements, no prejudices, no exclusions. Just fun for all.

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Any guests who would like to attend our Uninhibited events will need to be Untamed nights members. We charge £15 per person for your yearly membership which includes added benefits such as an exclusive cocktail menu, themed party nights, various discounts and of course your VIP gold membership card. Every members party is guest list admission only for everyone's safety.

To become a member you must be an established swinger with an informative profile on either Fabswingers or Fabguys and be recently well meet verified within the last twelve months (No webcam only verifications).

We accept all debit and credit cards: Mastercard, Visa, Maestro, V Pay, Google Pay and Apple Pay. We accept chip and pin and contactless payments, both by card and smartphone at the venue to make your membership, entry and bar bills easy to pay.

We run a tab system at the bar so you do not need to carry cash or cards. Simply show your locker number at the bar and we will have the bill ready for you as you leave.

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140 Commercial Rd, Bournemouth BH2 5LU

07711064645 or 07720376949

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